'Round Ki's Way

As I was driving out of town this blog hit me, and now that I'm a passenger seat princess here we are.... I'm gonna start this blog with a little personal story (this is not a recent story so mind the business that's yours lol) A wild November day. So boom me and ole boy in all kinds of love (toxic af but we live and learn). So my period late so I'm panicking cause who pregnant?! I'm grown af, but a potential pregnancy is WILD 🤯. MULTIPLE pregnancy tests were positive.  I'm freaking out crying, and I call my lil sis who was in San Francisco on vacay at the time. Cause wtf I look like processing this alone. So she blown like "noooooo what you gonna do." So I'm like girl please we (him and I) gonna experience our 1st abortion together 🤷🏾‍♀️. So I tell him and this fool acting excited and gonna say "if it's a boy we really gotta keep it." Man I lost it cause boy you real life slow who tf knows the gender of a baby this early 🥴. Man I

 I was driving and this blog post was on my mind heavy so here we are y'all. Follow me though don't let the title scare you. So my therapist said during a therapy session "take that energy that you give to support others and pour into you and what's truly important to you!"  That statement resonated so much because as people a lot of the time we give, give, give until there is no more left. Then when we go through something or need something we feel let down. Sometimes we have to take back OUR power and give it to our self. Life is real and stress kills rapidly these days 🤦🏾‍♀️!   Now this getting the 50/50 out of here and I'm not referencing bills nor household duties. What I'm talking about is relationships, friendships, fellowship, and any ship that is important in your life. We think that everything has to be 50/50 when in reality we should be bringing 100% to these things. If I'm a friend why wouldn't I bring 100% to my friendship?! If we st