Perspective, Perimenopause, and 2025

 

2025 is coming to a rapid closing, and while the year had a lot going on there were also some very good moments.  I will be eating 12 grapes and sprinkling some lentils for 2026!

Perimenopause can come in to your life like a thief in the night, and one thing about it nothing is tolerated and the patience is very short.  Crazy thing is it begins for some people much earlier then expected.  I say all of that to say the mood swings, hot flashes, irregular period, and sleep issues require women to be left alone 🤷🏾‍♀️. 

Dealing with perimenopause sometimes you have to laugh before you commit a crime lol.  So men next time you are attracted to a woman that is possibly dealing with perimenopause think about the fact that she has no patience and does not feel like playing those stupid games with you.  Just leave her alone if there are no intentions or business there 🙄. 

Another thing in life is being this adult that we rushed to become.  So two days before Christmas I had to put $3k American dollars into my car, and anyone that knows me knows I loveeeeeee my car!  I kept trying to find a reason to complain and be mad about it, but I honestly couldn't thank God I had the money and it didn't hurt to pay it nor did it mess with anything I need to do.  That perspective really opened my eyes that sometimes we may find something to complain about or be mad about when we don't need to be.  I have never been thankful to spend $3k, but I'm just glad I could do what I needed to do.  Don't get me started on the fact that I moved twice this year in a 2 month time-frame (moving is expensive).  Always stand your ground because no one will make sure you get what you are paying for.

Why does someone not drinking bother people so much?!  Focus on yourself honestly because some of us like mocktails and juice lol.  Another thing if you are my guy friend you shouldn't be lusting over me, not cool at all!  Lustful men are really the worst like grow up! 

To end this blog leave folks alone, show people you care, stop playing games and doing subliminal things to show you care because no one is reading your mind, drink your water and mind your business, stop crossing boundaries that you know are there, stop acting like your friend/family don't have things going on also, stop calling people mean when they aren't doing what you want them to do (manipulation), and if you are trying to date someone have a plan and put forth some effort! 

It's almost 2026 let's all get ready for this New Year and make it one of the best!  If someone tries you SWING ON THEM 👊🏾!